045. Dangerous driving? How to have the conversation about giving up the keys
Driving is a symbol of independence, which is one reason why it’s tough for seniors to accept when it’s time to hand in the keys.
It’s also not a fun conversation for loved ones to initiate. For that discussion to be effective, it’s important to recognize when and why it's time for your loved one to stop driving.
Senior Services Expert Lori Williams outlines the 7 signs to look out for, so you can be proactive and have the conversation when it’s time. She explains aging itself is not a reason to stop driving - some 90-year-olds can still drive comfortably and safely. But you should be aware of certain mental and physical limitations that make driving risky. If you understand what to look for, you can help your loved ones with knowledge and confidence.
Topics discussed:
-Driving-Seniors and Dementia
-Senior Independence
-Seniors Driving Safely
-7 red flags for seniors driving
-When it's time for seniors to stop driving
Takeaways from this episode:
- Physical changes can make driving harder, including decreased vision and mobility, slow reflexes and body stiffness.
- Examine your loved one’s car – are there fresh dents and scrapes? Also look at the state of their garage and nearby objects like the mailbox.
- Changes in mood can also indicate driving stress or difficulty. Maybe your soft-spoken mother now has road rage when she never used to in the past.
- Notice if other family members are nervous to drive with this loved one.
- AARP has a free online seminar for preparing for the conversation and engaging loved ones effectively.
Resources mentioned in this episode:
AARP's seminar about driving conversations called 'We need to talk':
https://www.aarp.org/auto/driver-safety/we-need-to-talk/
Episode about watching for red flags, including dangerous driving:
https://www.loriwilliams-seniorservices.com/aging-in-style-podcast/episode/78dafab1/021-7-red-flags-to-look-for-during-holiday-visits-with-senior-family-members
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